Only human beings can be this hateful…..

I have thought about this post long and hard since I saw it on my Facebook page.  If anything people know about me I do not say anything without probable cause or provocation to do so.  Granted this post may have not been pointed directly at me, but I feel directly connected to it, for me, some obvious reasons.  I will say that I was very hurt by what was said and it made me very lonely to know that there would be consequences to it.

First and foremost I am neither a fool nor have I ever been, but I do know some.  Secondly, if I say anything about America I have that right because I am an American Citizen which means I have FREEDOM OF SPEECH, Right?!?!?! Thirdly, if any member of my family says anything about America they also have that right being an American citizen themselves or a LEGAL immigrant for over 28 years of their lives living in America, paying taxes in America, signing up for the selective service in America, working in America, but maybe FREEDOM OF SPEECH only goes for the illegal immigrants in America now.  Maybe people from other countries that live or who have lived in America and have called America their home for years on end should just bend over and take it raw so they can just be screwed without saying a word.  Give me your time and money, but you have no say so in what happens.

No one knows the people who say nasty things except maybe through only what has been told second, third or fourth string maybe even further down the line if at all.  What others say is THEIR OPINION or how they may see things, which if I am not mistaken it isn’t a crime.  I have read more hateful posts on FB about countries disliking other countries than I ever thought possible.  I have said hardly nothing what so ever like the post above.  I DO NOT tend to lean towards one side or the other, but I do tend to see the whole story before I say anything.

Just last week there was a post from Jodi Miller bashing and “dogging” another country and yet when someone responds in kind they get called assholes.  I do wonder though, what are the people  that do the same to other countries? Opinions are like assholes we all have one, but most don’t feel the need to express their opinion so hatefully.  I guess other countries deserve what they get, Right?!?!

I love the United States of America, but I do realize it has considerable flaws that make it far from perfect.  I love France, but I realize it also has considerable flaws that make it far from perfect.  Oh and one important little fact here, Ummm, America is far from being better off economically than any country right now.  One more little tidbit of fact, AMERICANS aren’t the only people who visit France and France doesn’t only consist of tourist money considering a lot of International Companies have their headquarters based here, but I guess that money doesn’t count.

People can love to hate me, but I don’t sugar coat what I see or what is read.  If I see something in either country I take offense to I may say something or I may not, but I NEVER say it so hatefully and in such a manner that people would look at me and wonder what kind of person I was to talk like that about other people.

Society, Cultures Amazement

Why is it, I wonder, that people think their society or culture is better? Have you ever been to the country you put down? Have you ever lived in the society you deem unworthy of your standards?

I have lived in two different societies, yet both are vastly the same in every aspect.

Both have their “FREEDOM” to choose. Both have taxes. Both have governments stating they will do the best for their people. Both have individuals who are wealthy and who are poor.

“FREEDOM” comes at a price just like everything else, yet there really isn’t a “FREEDOM” in which the people are totally free to pick and choose as they wish on everything. Yet each country has FOUGHT & DIED for its “FREEDOM”.

“FREEDOM” being free to pick and choose without restraint. I can choose what school I want to go too. I can choose any doctor (not in a book) to go too. I can choose ANY hospital I want. I can choose to open my own business. I can choose what career I would like. I can choose where to live. I can choose to have children. I can choose pretty much anything and everything I want, just like anyone else!!

I can not NOT pay my taxes. I can not NOT pay my insurance. I can not NOT pay my rent or any other bills I have acquired.

The main difference people see is the healthcare system. The same amount of taxes both countries pay is pretty much the same and yet one country has a healthcare system for their (ALL) people that comes out of taxes. The other does not. Is this the reason so many people find another so unworthy?! I do not wait months to see a doctor or a dentist or an eye doctor. People die there, people die here.

Both societies are both Capitalist and Socialist, NO MATTER WHAT YOU THINK, THEY ARE!!!!!! Both have social security, both help needy individuals guess what people that part would be the socialist. Both countries people pay for it out of their paychecks but it is up to the gov’t to let you have it back. One just chooses to let you see it before you retire to the nursing home.

If you think the large companies in one country aren’t regulated by the gov’t (which is socialist economy aspect) then why are large companies unable to become a monopoly??!!

Just because one country has a Socialist for a President doesn’t make the country any less a Socialist and Capitalist country. Socialist just happens to be a “Party” just like Democrat, Republican, Liberal or anything else, get a grip

GET THIS THROUGH YOUR HEADS PEOPLE “NO COUNTRY IS 100% TOTALLY FREE” NO MATTER HOW MANY MEN AND WOMEN HAVE DIED FOR IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That is the illusion that has been told over and over again.

by JHB

Human Race

I am so disappointed in the human race.  Seeing individuals like you when you are doing well and putting them on a pedestal only to drag you down when they feel you deserve it. Is this really what society has become a group of jealous, spiteful, hateful individuals that cannot stand for someone else to do better than others?

When a celebrity, athlete, friends, family do well everyone loves them. When they do something that every walk of life has done by cheating or drinking and driving or actually being humans people hate them and tear them down like they have never done anything bad in their lives.

Why do you have the right to be so harsh and hateful about someone else’s life when I will guarantee you can’t stand someone in your life when you have done something wrong and just want to be left alone?

Putting individuals out of reach to society is a setup for failure they have only one way to go and that is down with people so willing to judge and destroy them.

Making someone a sex symbol, making someone beyond reachable or beyond reproach they cannot live up to those standards and it can destroy them as individuals.  Look at countless celebrities who people are so quick to pass judgment on if they do not act the way the public thinks they should.  Models, which see and hear how beautiful they are on a daily basis, but yet if they gain a few pounds are called, fat by society and their bosses as well.  These people kill themselves because they can’t live up to the standards society places on their heads and society sits on their asses and feels they have a right to pass their own judgment!!

The media is at fault for a lot of this, but society lets it happen.  People in the public eye have no rights where society is concerned and that is a shame because they can’t be human beings and make mistakes like everyone else.  Some do not choose to be in the public eye and others do which the media feels they have a right to pick every one of them apart along with people who post nasty comments on forums, Facebook, or any other social media.

I get so irritated at the people who put nasty comments on social media because I know that a lot of people voicing their nasty comments backed those individuals they are putting down to the masses.

WHY DO YOU FEEL IT’S YOUR RIGHT TO TRY AND DESTROY SOMEONE ELSE?

WHY DO YOU FEEL IT’S YOUR RIGHT TO VOICE YOUR OPINION ABOUT SOMEONE ELSE’S LIFE, WHEN YOU DO NOT LIKE OTHERS DOING THE SAME ABOUT YOU?

BY THE WAY: FREEDOM OF SPEECH DOES NOT GIVE YOU THE RIGHT TO BE AN ASS OR TRY AND DESTROY SOMEONE!!

People

Everyday we hear about how people kill each other, hurt each other, tear each other down like nothing is out of the ordinary. When did humans become such savage creatures against each other or has it always been this way?

In my own experience no one is safe from jealousies, pettiness, spiteful ness or even being hurt by the ones claiming to care for you the most. Why is that?

Did circumstances alone drive people to who they are today or are people truly born with an evil spirit within them?

I often wonder about the people who hurt children and how their mind works to hurt something so innocent and call it all for love. How is this love? How does one person define love when it is such an evil thing?

Then we see children as cruel as adults taunting and hitting or even killing other children, did we make these children into what they have become in a society that has no consequence to actions so heinous.

Adults sit and watch their children become monsters and do nothing and the law does nothing to support the parent. Don’t spank it’s inhumane, don’t slap its inhumane, yet the children kill.

Adults and their jealousies their gross sense of pride to literally stand and destroy or try to destroy another human beings life whether it be literal or figuratively.

Has it always been thus? Have we always been a population where our fellow human means nothing other than to get what we want out of them and then destroy what is left?

Do we not see how pitiful we actually are as the human race?